1. Welcome

2. Before Tying the Knot: Premarital Coaching-The Unity Ladder

Module Overview

Key Topics Covered

Interactive Activities

3. How Well Do You Know Your Partner

Discussion Questions

Ladder of Reflection (Journals)

4. Understanding the 10 Gates

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Communication Styles

Theatrics at the SG, FG, OG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 2: Finances and Family/Blended Family (Valley Gate, Dung Gate, Fountain Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Financial and Family Dynamics

Theatrics at The VG, DG, FG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 3: Hope and Judgment (Water Gate, Horse Gate, East Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker

Theatrics at the WG, HG, EG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 4: Reflection and Future Planning (Inspection Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Icebreaker

Theatrics at the IG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

5. Conclusion and Next Steps

Relationship Precheck

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate)

How can trust be built through communication? *

By avoiding difficult conversations.

By being transparent and consistent in words and actions.

By always agreeing with your partner.

By keeping certain thoughts and feelings to yourself.

What is an effective way to foster openness in a relationship? *

Criticizing your partner’s ideas immediately.

Encouraging honesty and active listening without judgment.

Only sharing positive experiences to avoid conflict.

Allowing one partner to dominate the conversation.

Pre-Marital Coaching

Relationship Precheck

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate)