1. Welcome

2. Before Tying the Knot: Premarital Coaching-The Unity Ladder

Module Overview

Key Topics Covered

Interactive Activities

3. How Well Do You Know Your Partner

Discussion Questions

Ladder of Reflection (Journals)

4. Understanding the 10 Gates

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Communication Styles

Theatrics at the SG, FG, OG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 2: Finances and Family/Blended Family (Valley Gate, Dung Gate, Fountain Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Financial and Family Dynamics

Theatrics at The VG, DG, FG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 3: Hope and Judgment (Water Gate, Horse Gate, East Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker

Theatrics at the WG, HG, EG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 4: Reflection and Future Planning (Inspection Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Icebreaker

Theatrics at the IG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

5. Conclusion and Next Steps

Relationship Precheck

Week 2: Finances and Family Dynamics (Valley Gate, Dung Gate, Fountain Gate)

How can understanding financial values benefit a relationship? *

By ensuring one person controls all financial decisions.

By fostering mutual respect and aligning on financial goals.

By avoiding discussions about money.

By allowing financial differences to go unaddressed.

Why is it important to let go of toxic beliefs in a relationship? *

To ensure that only one person’s beliefs are followed.

To embrace renewal and support personal and relational growth.

To prevent conflicts by ignoring differences.

To avoid challenging each other’s perspectives.

Pre-Marital Coaching

Relationship Precheck