1. Welcome

2. Before Tying the Knot: Premarital Coaching-The Unity Ladder

Module Overview

Key Topics Covered

Interactive Activities

3. How Well Do You Know Your Partner

Discussion Questions

Ladder of Reflection (Journals)

4. Understanding the 10 Gates

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Communication Styles

Theatrics at the SG, FG, OG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 2: Finances and Family/Blended Family (Valley Gate, Dung Gate, Fountain Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Financial and Family Dynamics

Theatrics at The VG, DG, FG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 3: Hope and Judgment (Water Gate, Horse Gate, East Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker

Theatrics at the WG, HG, EG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 4: Reflection and Future Planning (Inspection Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Icebreaker

Theatrics at the IG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

5. Conclusion and Next Steps

Relationship Precheck

Week 3: Hope and Judgment (Water Gate, Horse Gate, East Gate)

What role does hope play in a relationship? *

It is irrelevant to the stability of the relationship.

It strengthens the partnership by fostering shared dreams and aspirations.

It creates unrealistic expectations that should be avoided.

It should be kept individual and not shared.

How can partners effectively support each other’s aspirations? *

By focusing solely on individual goals.

By avoiding discussions about each other’s aspirations.

By dismissing each other’s goals as unimportant.

By engaging in shared experiences and encouraging each other’s dreams.

Pre-Marital Coaching

Relationship Precheck