1. Welcome

2. Before Tying the Knot: Premarital Coaching-The Unity Ladder

Module Overview

Key Topics Covered

Interactive Activities

3. How Well Do You Know Your Partner

Discussion Questions

Ladder of Reflection (Journals)

4. Understanding the 10 Gates

Week 1: Communication and Trust (Sheep Gate, Fish Gate, Old Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Communication Styles

Theatrics at the SG, FG, OG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 2: Finances and Family/Blended Family (Valley Gate, Dung Gate, Fountain Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker: Financial and Family Dynamics

Theatrics at The VG, DG, FG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 3: Hope and Judgment (Water Gate, Horse Gate, East Gate

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Ice Breaker

Theatrics at the WG, HG, EG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

Week 4: Reflection and Future Planning (Inspection Gate)

Clearing

Partner Agreements

Declaration

Relationship Precheck

Icebreaker

Theatrics at the IG

Ladder of Reflection (Journaling)

5. Conclusion and Next Steps

Relationship Precheck

Week 4: Reflection and Future Planning (Inspection Gate)

Why is reflecting on your journey together important? *

It prevents you from focusing on the present.

It helps recognize growth and set future goals with clarity.

It is unnecessary as long as future plans are made.

It should only be done individually, not as a couple.

What is the significance of setting intentions for the future in a relationship? *

It creates unnecessary pressure.

It provides a clear path and mutual understanding of goals.

It should be avoided to prevent conflicts.

It focuses only on short-term goals rather than long-term aspirations.

Pre-Marital Coaching

Relationship Precheck